On an episode of The Sopranos, a hunk went to the bathroom, where he died, and the camera caught the actor sitting in a position with his pants and shorts down around his ankles. It made me so hot I whacked off immediately. Later, I taped the episode for that purpose. Also, I found a picture of an opera staged in Barcelona where six men were sitting on the can with their pants and shorts around their ankles. I found that picture extremely hot. My question is, why do I find these pictures so erotic? I’m just a garden-variety gay, so I don’t find pleasure in pain (so the death of the hunk had nothing to do with it), nor do I enjoy the sight or smell of shit, so these pictures and my reaction to them puzzle me. I hope you print this, as I’m sure I’m not the only one out there who finds these images erotic. –Hot Pants
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What makes you so sure you’re not the only one who finds these images erotic? I’ve been at this sex advice thing for a while, HP, and you’re the first person I’ve ever heard from who gets off at the sight of a guy sitting on the can with his pants around his ankles. That means you’re special. As to why this turns you on, well, why freaky stuff turns some people on is nearly impossible to determine. Perhaps it’s seeing a man at a moment of extreme vulnerability, a moment when very few men wish to be observed. Perhaps the subtle violation of a man’s privacy turns your pervy crank. Or hell, maybe it’s something else entirely. Who knows?
But the only mystery I’m interested in solving is this: why are you bothering with this woman? Between your insecurities, her history of cheating, and your piss-poor sex life, it’s not like either of you is getting anything out of this but grief. Tell your girlfriend to shove her suspicions in her little knickknack box, IAS, and end this farce already.
If you’re unable to shit or sit without pain for a week after he fucks your ass, ASS, then he’s not giving you enough anal foreplay–and kissing you and groping your ass doesn’t count, kiddo. More lube might help, ASS, but it’s not the solution to your problem. He needs to get in there and rim your ass, finger it, and use small toys on it.
