I was surfing through some porn and I ended up at one of those Webcam screen-shot galleries. Basically people talk girls into getting naked on regular cam chats and take a bunch of screen shots to send to a site that has tons of galleries. Anyway, I’m pretty sure one of the galleries has my ex-girlfriend in it. It really looks like her, but there’s some small chance it could be someone else. But the thing is, we still talk a lot, and I know that whenever I see her I’m going to think of those pictures and it will really strike a nerve. I gotta find out if that’s her or not or else this will bug me forever. I don’t know how she’d react if I just flat out asked her, and I don’t know how to subtly hint around something like this either. What should I do?
If the shots are of your ex, then she’s exposing herself to men via Webcam during on-line chats. And that’s a fine pastime for a young lady, in my opinion, provided she’s aware of the risks involved. On the off chance that your ex doesn’t know that the guy or guys she’s chatting with can take and save and post and swap and invite the whole goddamn world to beat off to pics taken during her nekkid chats, she needs a heads up from you, her ex and good buddy. If the pictures aren’t of her, she’ll be shocked–shocked!–that you would even think she was capable of doing such a thing. If the pictures are of her, she may attempt to save face by pretending to be shocked–shocked!–that you would even think she was capable of doing such a thing. However your ex chooses to play it, be a gentleman and play along.
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Second, you write that your friend isn’t in the pictures you saw. But what does that prove? Unless your friend’s wife is giving head on a bed covered with last week’s Sunday Times, you have no way of knowing when the pictures were taken. The pictures–and the head–could predate your supernice friend’s relationship with this woman.
Is it illegal? Meaning, will feeding your TA your black cock in exchange for a good grade land you in prison? No. It’s certainly unethical, but there ain’t no law against it.
I’m a hustler myself, and I always use condoms when I suck guys off. Most of ’em don’t like it, but too fucking bad. They can buy another whore who doesn’t care as much about his health. My advice to WBAC is this: whether you find a dick in the bushes or hire an escort, if you’re really, truly concerned about getting an STD, ask the guy to wear a condom. If he refuses, find another one. Guys who need blow jobs are like buses–another one will come along soon. –Safe Hustler
