I’m in college and I live with my best friend. He and I tell each other almost everything–except he doesn’t know that I’m bi. What complicates things further is that I am completely in love with him. He’s straight and oblivious. Everyone says you can’t “convert” someone, but I’m wondering if he has bi-curious leanings he isn’t telling me about. Is there some way I can get him to open up to me without necessarily exposing myself? My worst fear is that I tell him the truth and he ends our friendship and moves out.
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Sorry, chickenshit, there’s really no way to do that. If you want your friend to “open up” to you (or open up his ass to you), you’re going to have to open up to him and, yes, run the risk of destroying your friendship and losing your roommate. But you know what? If you’re in love with this guy you should be anxious to tell everything and risk everything. It will be sad, of course, if he reacts badly and walks out of your life forever–but what will you really have lost? Only the friendship of a guy you don’t really want to have as your friend. You want to be his boyfriend. If he doesn’t want to be your boyfriend, TNTF, then the sooner he’s out of your life the sooner you’ll get over him.
I am an avid reader of yours in Edmonton, Alberta. I am also a submissive cross-dresser with a domestication fetish. My wife participates in this with me. I am interested in expanding my limits by dressing up and serving a gay couple as their sissymaid. I have run ads on the Internet without any luck. Is the idea of having a sissymaid something the average gay couple finds repulsive? If this is something a gay couple might be interested in, how would I go about finding them? Should I go to a local gay bar? If I should, do I go alone and dressed as a dude? Or do I take my wife and go dressed as a sissymaid?
I’m not sure which finger men who are married to men are supposed to wear their rings on, BBG, nor do I much care. But I do know this: people who aren’t ready to “publicly display [their] sexual orientation” have no business wearing wedding bands. A couple wears wedding bands in order to make a distinctly public statement. If you want to wear “secret” rings that no one can see or ask you about, then you should exchange cock rings.
O’Reilly. Rubbing off on me. Sigh. A boy can dream.
