I need your help. On Saturday, February 17, I went out dancing with some friends from work. We ended up at Electra (in Cincinnati), where I wound up dancing with this really attractive Asian woman. We danced all night and built up a really magical rapport. Her ride was pressuring her to leave, so in haste I borrowed a pen from the bartender and scribbled my first name and phone number on a napkin. I didn’t try to get her phone number because I didn’t want to seem pushy, and she promised to call.

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I know almost nothing about this girl except that her name is Cheryl and she’s in her early 20s. I don’t know her last name, or where she works, or even if she’s in school. It’s super rare that I find someone that I am that attracted to and have that kind of energy with, so I really need your help. Would you please, please, please publish this message:

I don’t know what else to do about this, and that’s why I’m begging you to publish my letter. Please help me, Dan!

“You could actually help this guy,” said the angel who sits on my right shoulder. “It sounds like they’re made for each other! If you publish his letter, why, Cheryl might see it and contact him!”

BDISIW@yahoo.com

My heart aches for your three little girls. If their daddy is writing sex-advice columnists for apartment referrals, well, they’re gonna need all the help they can get. Here’s hoping a bighearted landlord sees this and gets in touch.

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