I am a Middle Eastern guy who lived 21 years of my life in that region. This year I came to Canada. The sexual freedom in this country makes you feel more and more inclined to have sex with a girlfriend. Lately, I met this girl in an Internet chat room. She said she has a crush on me and offered to come and visit me in Canada, stay at a hotel, and have sex with me. We’ve masturbated together a couple of times during chats, but now that she is getting serious about coming to Canada I’m starting to worry:

Do you think I should sleep with her if she comes, or cancel the plan? –So Alluring Until Disease Intervenes

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(1) A man’s chances of getting HIV from a woman during vaginal intercourse while using a condom are slim to nonexistent. There are a few other STDs you could get even while using a condom–syphilis, herpes, HPV, and more–but if you use a condom correctly your odds of catching even these STDs are low.

(4) You didn’t have a number four, so this is bonus advice: Not everyone who meets and masturbates with strangers online tells the truth about themselves. For all you know, SAUDI, this woman could be a liar, a psycho, a man, a mullah, or all of the above. Proceed with caution.

We are both totally bummed that one of the few kinks we could share and enjoy has been taken away from us. Is even a little additional uric acid in his diet going to make his gout worse? Please ask your doctor friend before anyone else winds up with this chronic disease! –Must Our Urine Sharing End?

What the hell happened to santorum? I have been anxiously awaiting updates to www.spreadingsantorum.com, but the last letters were posted in June! Please don’t forget about us santorum lovers, Dan! We miss the frothy mix! –Allie