I’m a 16-year-old girl with a 17-year-old boyfriend. My boyfriend is religious and strongly against sex before marriage (vaginal, anal, or even oral). Recently our making out has lead to “dry humping.” I’ve heard all sorts of things from peers and teen magazines about what can happen when a guy ejaculates in this situation, and I would like to know just how far semen can travel and through what, if any, fabrics. Thank you for any help you can provide.
If your boyfriend isn’t coming inside you and you’re not pressing your semen-soaked panties hard into your crotch, NAHIVA, the odds that you’ll get knocked up are nil. So you go right ahead and enjoy the hell out of the humping–even if it is going to land you both in hell. After all, every religion that bans premarital vaginal, anal, and even oral sex also bans premarital dry humping–particularly the kind that leaves you sopping wet.
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Are you this woman’s only friend? If you are, NWTLH, there’s more wrong with your pal than just her taste in men. If you’re not, take your concerns to her other friends and see if they share them. If they don’t, there’s something wrong with you–you’re still hung up on your friend, and it’s your judgment that’s fucked up, not hers. But if a significant number of her friends agree that she’s making a big mistake, beg them to do for your friend what you, considering your history, cannot do–i.e., slap some sense into her fool head before it’s too late.
